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97 天前
回复了 oldbuck 创建的主题 职场话题 29 岁接下来的人生路该怎么走?
我和 OP 好像
@0x67cq 老哥这段话真厉害,学到了
121 天前
回复了 kaxiu 创建的主题 奇思妙想 基于这个痛点,想做一个笔记软件
mem.ai 就有这个功能
137 天前
回复了 linshuizhaoying 创建的主题 生活 2024 桌面分享与桌搭
@mauve 这个景色很好
138 天前
回复了 LeviMarvin 创建的主题 程序员 现在有没有可以阅读完整项目的 AI
140 天前
回复了 yagamil 创建的主题 生活 将来你老了,你最后悔的会是什么?
@cmdOptionKana 说的好
@dlmy 老哥厉害啊
241 天前
回复了 lstz 创建的主题 问与答 如果能回到过去,你最想回到哪一年?
@Tumblr 笑死了
246 天前
回复了 lstz 创建的主题 问与答 如果能回到过去,你最想回到哪一年?
希望自己重来没出生过
2023-10-28 16:09:35 +08:00
回复了 hero158 创建的主题 生活 36 岁一事无成,是不是非常失败
前几天看到的一段很喜欢的话
2023-10-28 16:09:12 +08:00
回复了 hero158 创建的主题 生活 36 岁一事无成,是不是非常失败
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When I was getting married, I was a PhD student at the time. My mom pulled me aside on my wedding day and said "John I want to give you some advice". I was like oh she's going to like tell me to listen to my wife or whatever. But she didn't. She said only two words that have stuck with me for a long time. She said "don't compare". That's all. And then she was like okay you can go back to do whatever you're doing. At the time this was very hard for me to process because I was in a university which is all about comparing people based on like what their exam score was. It turns out that out there in the world, there are no exams that everybody takes that are standardized anymore. All that matter is what you go and get done on your own particular path. So, comparing yourselves to other people becomes meaningless rapidly as what really matter is what you could do yourself, like what you're capable of and what you bother to do and how you choose to spend your time. It took years of this two-word phrase "don't compare" to marinate inside of me and for me to realize that my self-worth really has nothing to do with what other people can do or whether I can do it better than them or worse than them. It has everything to do with what i've done and what i'm gonna do next and how I spend my time and better myself. I should just focus on improving myself and forget about what everybody else is doing. (John Denero)It is something that took me a long time in life to understand not to compare. And there's a trap too that we do. We compare for example how big our house is to that one friend and how much money we make to another friend, and the kind of clothes we have to this friend and how smart we are to that friend. We pick and choose these things and that's first of all, even doing that individually is meaningless right? But it's also a trap and this is the problem with social media, you see these sore of curated worlds of other people and it's a trap. One of the great things of getting older is you will get there, I promise, you will realize it's a trap and comparing means absolutely nothing. It really is a very internal thing of what are you doing, who do you want to be, how do you want to go through this world, how do you want to treat other people. At the end of the day, that, and almost nothing else, is going to matter. And you got to just trust that it's going to be there. (Hany Faird)
2023-10-14 12:18:29 +08:00
回复了 matrix1986 创建的主题 求职 老板突然跑路,公司原地爆炸, 37 岁大专高龄程序员求职
哎,每次看到这种帖子就很焦虑,祝 OP 一切顺利吧
2023-03-18 14:49:49 +08:00
回复了 fenranaab 创建的主题 程序员 关于工作无意失误,造成公司损失的疑问请教大家
@supersadmin 公司净赚 1 万多 + 100
2023-03-15 14:15:28 +08:00
回复了 AmaQuinton 创建的主题 Kubernetes 运维同事离职,领导让我兼任运维工作,该怎么办?
@litchinn 老哥好能说~
2023-02-04 15:32:47 +08:00
回复了 roseduan 创建的主题 程序员 数据库/存储学习路径推荐
感谢大佬~
2023-02-01 17:54:45 +08:00
回复了 DigitalHarace 创建的主题 程序员 不会说话的人如何学习酒桌敬酒文化
过年回家喝了一次酒,感觉脑袋不太够用了
老板带我赚钱
2023-01-22 10:14:54 +08:00
回复了 Raynard 创建的主题 问与答 老哥们给推荐点有趣的爱好吧!
@SolarAA 没看到要赚点小钱。。
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